The Wonder of it All...

I have never been one to try to paint with a broad brush and fit everything that happens in this life neatly into the categories of fate and destiny, but there are some things in life that speak more clearly than others and as signs they will not be dismissed. Some might wonder how I know that going to Ghana is right? How do I know this is what I am called to do? I would offer up five simple, seemingly unrelated events in my life that, for me, all point to Ghana and urge me to continue on my path to Ghana. The first has to do with meeting a stranger, two are about money and two are about encouraging my heart. I consider all of them miracles and all of them have been incredibly powerful experiences for me, I hope you'll seek to see the signs in your own life. Where are they pointing you?

It was Cracker Barrel Creepy.

A few weeks ago, I was up late trying to hash out the details of my Africa trip when I realized it had been quite some time since I had last had something to eat. Growing hungry, I got in my car and drove down the road headed towards the first grouping of fast food restaurants. Now as my home church pastor, Dr. Cooper would say, in order for this story to carry water there are some details you need to know. Highway 400 is the major thoroughfare that will get you nearly anywhere from Atlanta on north to Dahlonega. I live several miles off of Exit 17 of Highway 400. Since trip details had me busy, I had gotten into the habit of ordering from the drive-through so that I could get back home to my work but also so I wouldn't have to eat alone inside the restaurant (something I rarely ever do). Just off Exit 17 near where I live there are some fast food places to eat but I drove right on past those deciding I just wasn't in the mood for those particular places or types of food. I then decided to head south from Exit 17 towards Exit 14, the next major grouping of restaurants. As I approached Exit 14 I drove on, not in the mood for any of those. In just a split second I made a choice that at the time seemed totally inconsequential but would prove to be huge. I chose to go to Cracker Barrel that night.

It was nearly eight o' clock at night, I live off of Exit 17, Cracker Barrel was all the way down to Exit 11. I hadn't gone to Cracker Barrel in ages because of the distance but that night I had decided it was what I wanted. I could go in and sit quietly by myself, something I rarely do, and read a book I had just bought about Ghana, all the while enjoying free refills on my sweet tea. I pulled up to the Cracker Barrel, parked my car, grabbed my book to take with me, went inside, was led to a table, sat down, handed a menu which I began to intently study as I prepared to place my order. As I read the menu, half hidden behind it, in the outermost edge of my vision that remained unobstructed by the menu I noticed a server approaching my table. The introduction went something like this:

"Oh my gosh! Are you going to Ghana or are you just studying about it?"
Shocked and shaken, I slowly lifted my eyes up and to the side to look at this person before I responded.
"Um, I'm going to Ghana actually, for six months to do humanitarian work."
"That is awesome! Where will you be living?"
"Adenta, just outside of Accra, the capital."
"Oh my gosh! I used to live in Accra, I lived there when I was younger. I went to school there!"

At this point you probably could have knocked me over with a feather. Her name was Jonell Finley and between the moments of waiting on the other tables in her area we spent perhaps the better part of the next thirty minutes talking about Ghana. She shared with me how much she missed Ghana, the culture, the language and the food. Before I left I made sure I had her e-mail and she had mine and I made sure I told her about Amazing Grace Baptist Church, the Ghanaian congregation I worship with in Atlanta. Since then she has not been able to get a Sunday off from work, something we have all likely experienced at some point in time, but I have faith that Jonell is going to come to Amazing Grace very soon and I know in my heart that it will change her life when she does.

Remember what it means to volunteer.

Very briefly I want to share with you two financial miracles. As a volunteer I have no source of real or livable income, I have been living off my savings since resigning my position with the county a little over a month ago. Because "no one goes to Ghana," the ticket prices are always quite high, almost always around $1,500. I was struggling to find a ticket because travel agencies just will not book flights to Ghana, it's as simple as that. When I asked why I was given any number of variations of the theme that internal policies listed Ghana in such a way as to exclude it from the "acceptable list" of destinations available for booking by travel agencies. My friend and Christian brother Pastor Charles Owusu came to my aid, offering to arrange the booking through a friend and church member that might be able to find a good price through his travel company. Friends, I went nearly crazy waiting for a ticket to be found. As I searched on my own, I saw that tickets through any carrier were all around $1,800 with some as high as $3,000. When I purchased the ticket my Ghanaian friends found for me, it was just under $1,400, and that is a miracle.

The second money miracle is health related. Anti-malarial medication is an absolute must for travelers to Ghana or anywhere in the tropics. Why is malaria still such a killer in the world? Simple, because the medications that prevent it are exceedingly expensive and therefor out of the financial reach of a great many people. My mother is a healthcare professional and with her help we had shopped on-line for the lowest pricing possible for the anti-malaria pills my doctor had prescibed. Based on a trend we were seeing, we had ever expectation of paying around $1,800 for a six month supply. Now I'm usually hesitant to endorse any specific brand but I want to tell you we were able to get six months of anti-malaria pills at Sam's Club for just about $500. Friends, in that instant my trip became nearly $1,400 cheaper and this is where Dr.Cooper would tell you it's okay to say an "Amen."

Your needs are known.

Two Saturdays ago I was in a real bad way. I was sick to my stomach, unable to sleep, unable to eat and all the while with an exquisite headache. My anxiety and fears about the trip and the tension surrounding the final details were just too much for me. I felt like my resolve and my sanity were on a razors edge and needed but a nudge to spell disaster for me. I knew I was under attack because when I questioned myself about the fear and anxiety there were no specifics, just bland, generic fear of the unknown. Two Sundays ago I sat in church at Amazing Grace and I took out a pen and a slip of paper and I began to write a note to Pastor Charles Owusu. I was sending out a distress call with a pen and paper, asking if Amazing Grace could pray for me during the service because I was having a very difficult struggle and I believed I just might be losing the battle. I finished the note but then looked in the church program and saw that it was "Men's Day," a special day for the men of the church to run the service and also have lunch afterwards. I decided it was too busy to worry about my need, it could wait until next Sunday and I put the note away inside my Bible. Now I hadn't said a word to the pastor (Dr.Owusu) or my friend (Charles Owusu), and there was no special annotation in the program but before the service ended Dr. Owusu called me as "our brother Kwame," to come kneel at the altar and have all the men of the church lay hands on me and pray over me. As the men prayed, some in Twi and others in English, Dr. Owusu prayed and specifically asked God remove my fears and anxieties about the trip. If I hadn't been there I'd say it was unbelievable. Now friends, I'm going to be vulnerable with you for a moment and tell you free of any embarrassment I cried during that prayer. This amazing experience was followed by last Sunday, when, without my knowing or anything specially noted in the church program, Concord Baptist Church where my family attends did the same thing with the only difference being it was Sunday night and the entire church came forward and prayed over me.

Some people ask for a sign so that they can know they are going the right way. I say if you are calm, quiet and still, you will see signs all around you, pointing you to where you should go. It took me weeks before I realized that my home church in Ghana, Calvary Baptist Church, bears the same name a little church in Alabama. The Calvary Baptist Church in Alabama was built long before I was born on land donated by my mother's family and was where my grandfather preached the good news of God's love now so many years ago. How incredible that without my hand in it at all a church in Ghana where I have never been would bear the same name and that that church would choose to invite me to come serve with them. This is the second part of this story where Dr. Cooper would tell you it's okay to say an "Amen."

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